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Listening to connect.
What makes some people naturally charismatic? It’s not about being the most interesting person in the room — it’s about being the one who is most interested in others. That encompasses deep listening from this charismatic person’s side.
As they say, this listening can be different levels as in a game. Level 1 is when you are listening to a response, and the background processing in us happens in our context, which we all are masters of. A little upgraded version is where they say magic starts happening — You’re fully present, paying close attention to what the other person is saying. You’re not waiting to speak; you’re listening to understand. This creates more profound connections. So, level 2 is definitely an upgrade. The ultimate is Level 3, where you’re not only hearing the words but also tuning into non-verbal cues — body language, energy, and emotions. You respond with empathy and awareness, creating a truly shared experience. Level 2 and upwards make you charismatic. For instance, we call Shahrukh Khan Charismatic. You can observe his interest in other people, even in public forums. This demeanor must come from a deep understanding of your self-worth or nonchalance. Maybe!
Only Charismatic would know.
