Finding the one ?

Can we find the one in the first go? Do we?

I didn’t, although I found mine.

Humans change over time. So do preferences and characteristics.

We grew to be seen as naked as we could be. Not the nudity, I mean, that’s the least.
We learnt to hold each other’s fears as vulnerabilities could be shared; it took time.
We learn each day to make others’ dreams possible.

So to start with, I didn’t find the one.
Neither would he be the one till the end of my breath.

As I would like him to change every day as he wishes, and I would learn to either agree with him or communicate that I disagree. And live on.